She and I had a good, friendly breakup about a year ago (I initiated it), after 2.5 years of dating. Hi, I just went through a bad breakup a little bit ago. My ex was being irrational and refused to talk about things. It made me think of you because you were always calm and never lost your cool. Anyway, I just wanted to say now how much I appreciated that. In hindsight, that's what I liked about her, too. She was the most calm and rational girl I have ever met in my entire life. Too bad we grew apart. Anyway, is this entirely innocent or does she want to bang me? We haven't talked in about 8 months.