I don't know if any of you remember my other threads...but I'm back with a new question that I need an opinion. So, I went out with this girl for about 7-8 months. I was moving out of state, so we decided to break up. It completely ended...I still talked to her every now and then online and over the phone, but nothing serious. So, I'm going back there to visit, and we've been talking, and although it hasn't been said directly...we've been hinting at the fact that when I get there...we'll "get back together" for the 4 or 5 days I'm there. Well, last night I found out that she has been fucking my BEST friend for the last couple months. I have been talking to my best friend online also since I left, and he never mentioned this to me, in fact he's been saying "Dude, she misses you, she likes you so much still and can't wait for you to get back." Well, through a friend, I found out that all this bullshit has been happening...and I didn't believe it at all. I called her up and asked right away TOTALLY expecting a "are you out of your mind? of course that shit isn't true" Instead I got a "yeah it's true..." I was speechless, not knowing what to say I tried getting ahold of my friend to get him to finally admit to it, but couldn't...so instead I called one of his friend and told him to tell him that when I get up there...it's in his best interest not to try and see me. As far as I'm concerned, he's a worthless piece of shit for not telling me, and not only that, lying about it and saying that she couldn't wait to see me and all that. My friendship with this guy is over, I don't care to ever see this guy again...he fucked up. However, I still feel like I want to see this girl. I loved her when I was with her...she did alot for me, and was ALWAYS honest with me. When I asked her about this, she told me the truth right away...which is somewhat respectful. I am having mixed feeling of whether I want to see her or not...alot of me tells myself that what she did was totally fucked up, and regardless that she was truthful, I should tell her to fuck off and just forget about her. But another part of me still wants to see her for some reason...I'm trying to justify the reasons to myself to still see her and let the 4-5 days be good and try and forget that anything happened. Am I being stupid?