Well I have been with this girl for about 5 years. The past 2 years have been a little rocky, because I was slowly gaining weight, and becoming depressed. Well we have been like best friends but we don't see much of each other in person, but we talk on the phone like about every day. Well she told me recently that she got a new boyfriend, and I guess I always felt we were going to get back together, but obviously I was not doing anything with my life, no job, kept gaining weight, and just keep myself busy with stupid shit like tv and video games. Well now I am even more depressed. I told her the only way for me to get over her is too say goodbye and not talk to her, but I can't help myself, its like I have to talk to her, or I can't sleep at night. She tells me not say goodbye she doesn't want me to stop talking to her, but I feel like its the way only way I can move on with my life and get motivated to do something. Should I keep talking to her? Should I stop? I really want to get out of this rut im in, but I just can't seem to do it.