I dated a girl for a good 9 months. She cheated on me once when high/drunk/and on a trip(shrooms). She cheated again with another chick and kissed her. I was dumb and took her back yes I know and I've learend. It's now my last summer before college. She came to my house one day after being done with her now exex and waited for me to get home at 3am. Which she slept with me that night and fucked me and then did the stupid shit chicks pull where they go you love me right? From my smart head I thought your a fucking moron. You think love is just instant and you can pop in and out of lifes and attain love? But I realized that I dont have many other female options. Right now I'm "dating" according to her but in my head I'm not. We have seven days left together. She used to want to hang out with me. But now as the days count down the less and less I hear from her. She used to call nightly and daily with things to do or just rants about life. Now I hear nothing. She still pulls the I love you bullshit. What did I want from this "2nd" chance was purely sexual for my side. Will I say that no I'm too nice. Either way I want to leave to college with her knowing I don't love or date her. I'm rather whipped in this situation as I thought she cared about me. I realize this means I'm probably attached which might be true, but it's minimal and easy to break off unlike the first time. OT what should I do? Should I end it now? Is it rude to "use" her? Tom. is my last day in town for a week and then some. When I get back we have like 5-6 days together. Should I bother trying to see her for a last time before I leave for a while? I'm leaning towards no as if she doesnt care then I need not to because otherwise I'll just be the one losing. Right? I also don't really care to see her as she shows no interest in me so I dont feel a need to put out in return. This is kind of a rant, but if you wanna throw ideas at me feel free.