Known this girl and her 2 friends for about 6 years. We weren't super-close just go clubbing here and there, meet up as a group for drinks, chat via email/msn occasionally, etc etc. Me and this first girl were in relationships, and the other 2 were always "her friends" who I chatted to etc, didn't see them apart from when they were with her. I broke up with my partner, a few months later get a random email from the girl (hadn't spoken to her in about a year at this point?).. she's single too.. we meet up for drinks, end up hooking up. Spent about 3 months "together".. seeing each other, blah di blah. Things start getting serious. She freaks out. Doesn't want a relationship. We decide to just break it off and save the friendship. It's not 2 or so months on. Friendship is still good.. so we did something right at least. While we were together, she stopped being friends with the other 2 girls. Completely. One of those girl-things I don't get From best-friends to hate-each-other type deals, over nothing really. Thing is i've known these other 2 girls just as long as this girl, and I still talk to all of them equally. Now oppurtunity is arising to "hang out" with these 2 girls, with a mate of mine, at the girls' request.. in circumstances that are very obviously heading towards more than just "hanging out".. (lots of "so is there room in your bed for me to crash?" type jokes etc) Wtf do I do OT? I'm no casanova or woman-expert.. just a guy who wings it the best way he can and hopes for the best in situations I'm more curious as to whether it's ok just to hang with these chicks, i'm not particularly fussed about hooking up with anyone right now.. at the same time i'm not saying no if it jumps up. Cliffs: Met 3 girls. Knew them for ages. Hooked up with 1. It didn't work out. That one doesn't hang with the other 2 now. Other 2 wanna do shit with me. Do I?