So on top of having to work on new years day, which initially killed any thought of being able to do a proper celebration on new years eve..... my best friend got in a fight with one of the girls that's hosting the party, and now doesn't want to go anymore. Apparently a lot of things were said, they talked a few days later and kinda settled things, but he still doesn't want to go and it has put me in SUCH a tough position. I really like these girls, and we had a good time last year and I want to go... but at the same time I can't desert my best friend. Am I wrong for getting upset over it? When I brought it up with him asking if he'd consider changing his mind, he said no and that he would not make other plans, rather spend it at home and go to bed early. NYE is my fave time of year and I always like to do something to mark the occasion. Is he just trying to draw attention to himself and make me (and others) feel sorry for him? Of course I don't want to let my best friend spend new years alone.... "bros before hos" rule and all, etc..... but this has just got me completely torn. I'm going to go out for dinner with them early in the evening and then go to his place instead of theirs...... where we had planned hot tubbin, champagne, cigars, all the good stuff i've been looking forward to so much. fawk!!!!!!!!