OK, so I meet this chick - she's 23. Basically...we were talking online - and she brought up the subject of sex. She said "You wouldnt be able to handle me..." ,"Ive got experience...", and then asks do I take appointments. I said no, walk ins are welcome. Ive gone on 3 'dates' with her to get to know her a lil better. Im 19 - and know she's not looking for a relationship...she's got one 5yr old boy - has her own apt. and house.... I cooked her dinner this past Saturday, and I ride over to her place, to find out her dad's sister just came into the US from Holland, so she has to go see her - No prob. We go over there for about 2 hrs...then we're on our way back to her apt. When we get there - she's like " I goooootta go to bed, gotta wake up early" I was like -- why would you plan for me to make you dinner and then go to sleep at 10:30??? Is she toying with me? I dunno...so I sent her an email saying: "Look, I know what we're both looking for, and not looking for...when are we gona have our fun" She replied: "And what might that be...."