SRS Fair weather friends

[brandy]

So much for them, right? Every friend I ever had were fair weather. HOw can you tell which ones are REAL? bc they act nice to you in the beginning and then when shit happens, they walk out. the fuck?

 

[7960]

You threatened "friends", assaulted someone you called a friend, and tried to buy friendship, and you're complaining that people don't want to be around you?

 

[MPogg]

You threatened "friends", assaulted someone you called a friend, and tried to buy friendship, and you're complaining that people don't want to be around you?

 

[THoC]

 

[brandy]

You threatened "friends", assaulted someone you called a friend, and tried to buy friendship, and you're complaining that people don't want to be around you?

verbally or physically assaulted? Cuz I ain't never lay hands on no one lol

 

[4W4K3]

verbally or physically assaulted? Cuz I ain't never lay hands on no one lol

Words can be more painful and cut deeper than a physical altercation. I'd bet more people end friendships over verbal arguments than fist fights.

 

[deusexaethera]

Sorry man. Sometimes it is you, not them.

 

[brandy]

Words can be more painful and cut deeper than a physical altercation. I'd bet more people end friendships over verbal arguments than fist fights.

And strangely enough, because of all the screaming matches I had, I lost more than just friends. I lost part of my hearing. I guess I better end that lol.

 

[Tevin]

So much for them, right? Every friend I ever had were fair weather. HOw can you tell which ones are REAL? bc they act nice to you in the beginning and then when shit happens, they walk out. the fuck?

If all you have is "fair weather" friends, then there's a real good chance that it's because you are one yourself.

Quality people tend to attract and keep other quality people.

 

[9c1 driver]

If all you have is "fair weather" friends, then there's a real good chance that it's because you are one yourself.

Quality people tend to attract and keep other quality people.

Very well said !

 

[7960]

And strangely enough, because of all the screaming matches I had, I lost more than just friends. I lost part of my hearing. I guess I better end that lol.

Nothing else you've said has been true. Why should we believe that?

 

[brandy]

If all you have is "fair weather" friends, then there's a real good chance that it's because you are one yourself.

Quality people tend to attract and keep other quality people.

I would stand by any friend going through hard times. And I have.

 

[4W4K3]

I would stand by any friend going through hard times. And I have.

There's a thin line between "loyal" and "obsessive". I've crossed it with some of my friends, and even if you have good intentions you can come across as intrusive or annoying. Just a heads up...

 

[brandy]

There's a thin line between "loyal" and "obsessive". I've crossed it with some of my friends, and even if you have good intentions you can come across as intrusive or annoying. Just a heads up...

Thx. Maybe I do need a good look at myself.

 

[7960]

Thx. Maybe I do need a good look at myself.

".......and the award for 'Understatement of the Year' goes to...."

 

[Ameter]

So much for them, right? Every friend I ever had were fair weather. HOw can you tell which ones are REAL? bc they act nice to you in the beginning and then when shit happens, they walk out. the fuck?

They aren't fairweather friends if they walk when you start treating them like shit. They're people who don't like to be abused.

 

[brandy]

I just wish they'd let me talk about it time and again when I feel like crap over Kyra not bein my friend. I mean like, when she added everyone to FB but me, I tried to complain to the boss, but she won't hear of it.

 

[Ameter]

I can't believe you're still stuck on this. This shit happened over a year ago. Someone didn't like you. Get over it.

 

[brandy]

ten months. Just wanna kno y the workplace is just not where I could talk about her. Because it interferes with work or what?

 

[7960]

ten months. Just wanna kno y the workplace is just not where I could talk about her. Because it interferes with work or what?

You go to work to work. Shut the fuck up and work and leave your personal shit at home.

 

[4W4K3]

You go to work to work. Shut the fuck up and work and leave your personal shit at home.

This.

Of course there is a loophole for people who understand things like moderation and equanimity.

 

[IslanderOffRoad]

I just wish they'd let me talk about it time and again when I feel like crap over Kyra not bein my friend. I mean like, when she added everyone to FB but me, I tried to complain to the boss, but she won't hear of it.

If one of my employees came crying to me about another employee not adding them on Facebook, I'd ask them why they thought that was my problem and send them back to work.

 

[brandy]

So I guess I shoulda talked about this outside of work lol. k thanks guys.

 

[7960]

So I guess I shoulda talked about this outside of work lol. k thanks guys.

No, you should grow up and not bother talking about it at all.