SRS Fair weather friends

brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
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So much for them, right? Every friend I ever had were fair weather. HOw can you tell which ones are REAL? bc they act nice to you in the beginning and then when shit happens, they walk out. the fuck?
 

7960

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Oct 17, 2004
60,034
New England
You threatened "friends", assaulted someone you called a friend, and tried to buy friendship, and you're complaining that people don't want to be around you?
 
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brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
71
You threatened "friends", assaulted someone you called a friend, and tried to buy friendship, and you're complaining that people don't want to be around you?

verbally or physically assaulted? Cuz I ain't never lay hands on no one lol
 

4W4K3

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Dec 31, 2004
5,051
TX
verbally or physically assaulted? Cuz I ain't never lay hands on no one lol

Words can be more painful and cut deeper than a physical altercation. I'd bet more people end friendships over verbal arguments than fist fights.
 
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brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
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Words can be more painful and cut deeper than a physical altercation. I'd bet more people end friendships over verbal arguments than fist fights.

And strangely enough, because of all the screaming matches I had, I lost more than just friends. I lost part of my hearing. I guess I better end that lol.
 

Tevin

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Sep 11, 2010
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So much for them, right? Every friend I ever had were fair weather. HOw can you tell which ones are REAL? bc they act nice to you in the beginning and then when shit happens, they walk out. the fuck?

If all you have is "fair weather" friends, then there's a real good chance that it's because you are one yourself.

Quality people tend to attract and keep other quality people.
 

7960

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Oct 17, 2004
60,034
New England
And strangely enough, because of all the screaming matches I had, I lost more than just friends. I lost part of my hearing. I guess I better end that lol.

Nothing else you've said has been true. Why should we believe that? :rolleyes:
 
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brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
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If all you have is "fair weather" friends, then there's a real good chance that it's because you are one yourself.

Quality people tend to attract and keep other quality people.

I would stand by any friend going through hard times. And I have.
 

4W4K3

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Dec 31, 2004
5,051
TX
I would stand by any friend going through hard times. And I have.

There's a thin line between "loyal" and "obsessive". I've crossed it with some of my friends, and even if you have good intentions you can come across as intrusive or annoying. Just a heads up...:)
 
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brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
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There's a thin line between "loyal" and "obsessive". I've crossed it with some of my friends, and even if you have good intentions you can come across as intrusive or annoying. Just a heads up...:)

Thx. Maybe I do need a good look at myself.
 

Ameter

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Mar 31, 2005
97,530
Calgary, AB
So much for them, right? Every friend I ever had were fair weather. HOw can you tell which ones are REAL? bc they act nice to you in the beginning and then when shit happens, they walk out. the fuck?
They aren't fairweather friends if they walk when you start treating them like shit. They're people who don't like to be abused.
 
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brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
71
I just wish they'd let me talk about it time and again when I feel like crap over Kyra not bein my friend. I mean like, when she added everyone to FB but me, I tried to complain to the boss, but she won't hear of it.
 

Ameter

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Mar 31, 2005
97,530
Calgary, AB
I can't believe you're still stuck on this. This shit happened over a year ago. Someone didn't like you. Get over it.
 
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brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
71
ten months. Just wanna kno y the workplace is just not where I could talk about her. Because it interferes with work or what?
 

IslanderOffRoad

Do you even lift kit?
Dec 23, 2003
82,164
Houston, Tx
I just wish they'd let me talk about it time and again when I feel like crap over Kyra not bein my friend. I mean like, when she added everyone to FB but me, I tried to complain to the boss, but she won't hear of it.

If one of my employees came crying to me about another employee not adding them on Facebook, I'd ask them why they thought that was my problem and send them back to work.
 
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brandy

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Nov 12, 2010
71
So I guess I shoulda talked about this outside of work lol. k thanks guys.
 

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