For the past few months, I have been going to the gym. This is not only an attempt to improve my physical health but my mental health also - it helps me deal with stress better. In the short time that I've been there I have noticed this really cute guy look at me quite often. I know that I should smile or say "Hi" to him but something weird happens when he is around... I freeze. I'm like a deer in the headlights. Either that or, I'm a nervous wreck.. completely self-concious. I start to get uptight, have this kind of pissed off look on my face because I'm trying to hold back the urge to giggle. I'm afraid he's starting to notice and I'm ruining my chances with him.. How can I be more comfortable? More friendly? I don't want to parade myself around the gym like a tramp, that's not me... but I don't want to be an uptight prude either.. it's so hard finding a decent balance.