Quick background. Me and this girl's dad get along great. I dated his step daughter for about 18 months. And altough that didnt work, we remained pretty good friends over the past 5 yrs. Ocasionally go to a bar toguether, shooting range, that sort of thing. So now im kind of talking to his actual daughter. Last week we were watching TV in her room after going out. She felt sleep and I left about an hr later. She thinks that I should have stayed because her dad would not have cared. Which chances are he wouldnt I guess. But my thinking has always been to act towards dads as I would want guys to act towards me if I had a daughter. And I personally would not want to wake up and find my daughter cuddling with some guy in her room. Regardless of whether the door was open or not and that they were fully dressed. Now, had he known I was gonna stay , then thats fine I would have stayed. So now she feels like Im kissing her dads ass (she hates her dad BTW). But I feel like its not a "kissing ass" scenario, but rather a respect issue. I absolutely will not kiss anyones ass, ever. But Im a firm believer in respecting my friends and GF's parents as much as i respect my own. What you all think?