I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half now, we hung out about a month before we were "together", known her for a few months total. She's the first person I've felt safe to date in the past 2 years, due to a lot of personal issues after a long-term breakup. The thing is, I haven't felt safe/happy with anyone until now, and now that I'm really happy again, I feel like maybe I'm rushing through the steps in my head, because I think I could be in love with the girl. The fact I'm only a month into the relationship and feel "in love" kind of concerns me, and I feel like I'm getting too attached too quick. I don't know if she feels the exact same way as me, so I'm not just going to bring up "I love you" and hope for the best, because if she doesn't say it back, I don't know how I'll take it. Her and I go for lunch together almost every day (unless I work in the morning), I see her at work (we work together), and I started coming to pick her up at nights at work because she's "grounded" and isn't really allowed outside of the house other then work (We're both young, yes I know being grounded sounds retarded, lets leave this out of the advice). Anyone know if I'm rushing in too quick, if this is normal, etc?