OCTOBER 6TH, 2009 I am a new dad. A new dad to a baby girl. She is adorable. Now I'm no saint. I have the girls butt in my AV and the whole "you make me horny" line but having this baby girl has made me think about things.... a lot things... My question is...How can I "protect" her from guys (aka animals) like the ones on OT and other places? I am scared of the future and how to deal with guys and how to teach her to deal with guys who are just out for one thing or how to show her to watch out for the pricks or the "bad guys"? I'm scared of how guys will look at her like a piece of meat and just think about one thing... I'm really scared on how I'll react to the first boy that hurts her whether it be in PreSchool, Kindergarten or the 9th grade? How does a father deal with that? Its weird how coming on OT & the Vag a couple of yrs ago seemed like "fun" and I got to read all these threads about guys "getting" girls and reading how guys treat girls bad and they cheat on them, etc. My perspective on things has changed...I can't stand around anymore and listen to the guys at work talk about girls and how they are running around 2-3 girls and messing around with them all and how they call them "bitches" and "sluts" and all this other stuff...It makes me think if guys like that will be the ones that I have to deal with when she gets older. I'd like to hear from the women of OT and how would you deal with this in the coming years. I don't have a solution for none of this...My current solution is to put a shotgun to their head and blow them away. My only problem is....I can't blow them all away.