Is this true? Long story cut short. I've got a great girlfriend now who is really into me, we see each other almost every weekend and chat on MSN alot. However, before we became an item I was either telling her I liked her, then the next minute I was being filled with a cold dread about the fact that we might be an item that made me seem uninterested. I dont know why this happened as it's never happened before. Is it because I like her alot, and that I dont want to see myself hurt again (like with my ex) or is my subconcious telling me something here? I really like her and get on with her but sometimes I have moments of madness where I convince myself that we would not work together - even though I know I think the opposite. Is this whats know as fear of commitment?