Ok heres the deal, been with GF for 3 yrs. weved had our rough times but nothing major. Lately ive been feeling like I want something more out of a relationship, something that Im know Im not getting now, and probably wont ever get with current GF. The way she acts is pushing me farther away each day. For instance, i joke around alot, always have but whenever I make jokes in front of her she get pissed off, or says something rude to ruin my good mood, and if I make jokes in front of other people. ie my friends guys & girls she Im just trying to show off. She often pushes me away when I try to kiss her, and she NEVER wants me to go out with my buddies. Whenever I do anything with any of my friends she flips and clams Im ditching her even when we had no plans. And lastly, the thing that pisses me off the most is she always cuts me down, and when ever I want to do something new to better myself she tells me Im just trying to copy someone and that I shouldnt. (ie started working out to get in shape, and bigger- said Im just trying to be like my buddy who is a pretty big lifter, b/c I want to be him and I am jelous of him.) Now I know she sounds really bad, but there are thing I love about her, and she has many good qualities but these problems make things harder ands harder for me to remain happy. What should I do/ say to her? Should I try to fix it, or move on?? Cliffs:GF of 3 yrs is jelous, mean, and keeps me from being my true self. Love her alot, still have something worth saving together. Try to save it, or let her go??