Well I have this problem with my guilty conscious. I tend to feel guilty about the littlest things that I shouldn't even feel guilty over, and it's really annoying. I just have this tendency to tell my current SO everything that is involving another guy. I mean everything. If a guy hits on me during the day, I tell him. If I think another guy is attractive, like a coworker, then I let him know. If I don't then I feel really guilty over it, and I feel like I'm hiding something. I think this all started because of my ex-boyfriend. I dated him for several years and he got jealous over everything.Even if a guy checked me out, he would get pissed at me, like I did something wrong. So during the course of our relationship, I had this constant need to let him know anything that involved another dude. I mean anything. Even if it was something that I had no control over, like a sexual dream about another male. He would make me feel guilty about anything, so I felt that I had to tell him. If I didn't, he would blow up and call me a cheater and yell at me for "hiding" things away from him. Then I'd feel bad. Before him, I never felt like that. I didn't have much of a guilty conscious. I never cheated, so I never had a conscious like that. Well, unfortunately, this is carrying over to my new relationship. I feel like I have to tell him everything. He usually brushes it off. Like if I tell him that a guy hit on me, he doesn't get mad, he just gets flattered that he has a hot girlfriend that gets hit on (or at least that's what he has said lol). He doesn't really get jealous. I have a child with my ex-boyfriend, so have to talk to him sometimes (in person or on the phone) and see him every once in a while. Not because I want to but because I have to because of our kid. The only time my current SO has gotten jealous was because I have to contact my ex. Other than that, he doesn't really get mad over anything because he trusts me. I feel that I might end up pushing him away or something, by always bringing up these petty things with guys. I tend to get hit on just about every other day, and so I'm like always bringing this crap up when I'm on the phone with him. I'm sure anyone would feel annoyed hearing their SO talk about shit like that all the time. But like I said, I just feel guilty, like I'm hiding something. So I feel a need to tell him everything, even little things. I understand if I actually cheated, but I don't. So I shouldn't feel this guilty over small things. I have too much word vomit. How do I stop? I don't want to ruin a good relationship.