Mine seems to do it all the time. Like for instance right now, I'm talking to her over the phone and she's whining because she's sick, which I can understand. I tell her to take some medicine, and she goes, NO. I tell her that the only way for her to recover is to take some medicine, and she still doesn't comply. So I tell her to get some rest, which would be the next best way to recover, right? She defiantly says NO and continues to whine to me. So I'm just sitting here on the phone without a clue on what to do. She won't let me hang up on her, but we're not realistically conversing either. Fucking girls. And this isn't the only instance where she would whine to me. She whines to me about everything..like if I don't give her attention for the slightest second whenever we hang out at my apartment. Like if she's lying on my bed and I finally get a chance to use my computer, she'll keep whining until I give her my full undivided attention. And when she's not needing my attention, she's using my computer to surf the internet. What. the. fuck. And when I finally grow some balls to tell her that she needs to be more self-reliant and stop whining like a bitch all the damn time (not in those words, exactly, but the gist of it was there), she uses the excuse that she's asian and that like her, most asian girlfriends whine all the time. I'm seriously thinking about leaving her for someone who has more self-confidence in herself and is less reliant on me all the damn time. I mean, my g/f's cute and stuff...she's actually really cool as a friend, I know for a fact that she won't cheat on me, but it's been 8 or so months in the relationship and it's been going pretty much nowhere. CN: Sorry for the long post. But to make things short, does your g/f whine to you a lot? Or is it just mine? And secondly, do I have a good, legitimate reason for leaving her because she's so damn self-reliant on me? I find it very unattractive in girls who can't make decisions on her own and have to rely on their b/f's to decide where to eat, what to do, where to go, which movie to watch, etc. all the damn time. It's like I'm dating myself.