I realize I am probably being a bit selfish here, but I cant help how strong I feel about this. We are 2.5 months away from our wedding, and my fiance wants to plan a last minute trip home to see his friends and family. He wants to take 2 of our friends from here to go with him, and they have never met the 'friends and family' there. Also, his friends back home, are my cousins, who I also miss and would like to see. Mind you, ALL of these people are IN the wedding and we are going to see them soon. 1. We dont really have the money right now, seeing as we are trying to get a new place and finish the wedding planning. 2. He wants to take my car. His car is too old/beat up to make the trip comfortably. Mine is considerably newer, and would be easier to take. But I love my car and I really dont want to go with out it, or put the miles on it (500 mile trip one way) 3. I've already told him that we will plan our first vacation to see them as soon as we have enough saved to do so. 4. I REALLY REALLY REALLY just dont want him to go. He offered to take me with them. And although I still dont really like the idea. I rather get to go than just be stuck at home without a car. I dont want to intrude on his guy time, or his family time. He says he doesnt mind, but his mom and sis dont want me to go. I guess I'm just curious if OT think I am crazy selfish, or has a way we can work it out.