I posted this once on OT and got a few laughs at some of the replies and advice I recieved but it's become a more serious issue now. Please avoid the flames as I'm trying to get REAL advise. I was young, immature, etc. Here is the short version: -With GF for 4-5 years, ended before we were to get married. -Sold her my old car, but kept the title ( not a good idea as I found out ) -She stopped paying for the car ( owes $2.5k ) -Owes 2-3k in credit card debt She hasn't had a job in a year or so and uses that as an excuse for not paying. Her boyfreind pays for all her shit so there is no incentive to actually work for a living. I had planned on taking her to small claims (5k or less last I checked) about the car, and maybe again for the credit card debt. Now without her working and not owning any property etc I'm probably just wasting my time? The thing is she is getting married in Sept. of this year. Should I wait until she is married? Any benefits to her being married when I take her to court or should I take care of it now? "can't get blood from a stone...." It will probably hold true in my sitaution but, it's not about the money it's more about trying to do something about it rather than let it go.