So...I'm out of school and working (pretty much all the time) but finally I have a few bucks and some inclination to go out and meet people...been going out and doing just that for the first time in a long time and enjoying it a lot. Anyway, I meet up with this girl I haven't even seen in 5 or 6 years (high school) who I was maybe casual friends with prior to that (hell, maybe 10 years ago) and I take her out a couple times. I figure we're hitting it off and things are going well but now I'm having a tough time getting her out to do anything. Seems like she's not so much disinterested in me but just disinterested in doing much of anything with anyone....lazy or tired or something, I'm not sure. Though these are the same feelings I had that made me pretty much do nothing all through school….so I can relate a bit. When we do get out, the lack of energy and enthusiasm has been apparent (since maybe the 2nd outing..prior to that good laughs were had and conversations were easy). Now it’s starting to be hard work trying to make things move along. I'd like to pursue this further and really have no problem driving things but the question is how far should I drive it? The nice guy in me wants to let her move at her pace but the experience tells me that's not the best idea. Should I make a blatantly romantic move ASAP to deny the friendzone? Insist she come up with something to do one of these times rather than let her make me choose so I can get a feel for what she’s up to? Should I just ask WTF is up? Should I post nude pics for evaluation first and ask questions later?