So after a few years of nothing but a few here and there one night stands, I'm finally looking at the possibility of a real relationship. I'm 25, she's 22. So this girl I've been after for a while, I finally ask her non-ambiguously on a date. It was a ball that a couple of our friends were going to. So, we all go to our friends hotel room to change, because its within walking distance of the ball. And we decide that since its so close and we're gonna both be drinking, we should get our own room. So I do. Go to the ball, we hold hands, and walk arm-in-arm and all that high-school shit, get drunk, dance and all that. She bought a few of the rounds, so I was really impressed with that. We stagger back to the hotel room, time for some right? Nope. We just cuddle and sleep till time for checkout. Head to Shari's for breakfast, and go back to my place where we proceed to sleep for several more hours. There wasn't much kissing, just a few pecks here and there, so I ask her about it and she says she really wants to just take it slow while she tries to figure out her life right now. And when I drop her off, she says we should do something again really soon. So I'm not sure how to take all of this, because for me the norm would've been to go at it like hyperactive bunnies once we got to the hotel, but that's never really worked well for me before, and I really like this girl. Is there a general timeline for taking it slow? I want to actively push forward, but I don't want to push her away either.