Im considering getting a tattoo but Im alittle confused/scared. What size should I get for the first one and where should I get it? I've heard that the closer to bone you are the more it hurts (ie scalp vs stomach). Where would be the best place for it? Im not looking for something crude. I have a design I would like but Im concerned that it may be too intricate for the size I'd like. Any suggestions warning would be helpful thanks.