Hey, my girlfriend has been wanting to try the anal sex as of late. She love the old finger in the ass during sex and is look to step it up a little but. The problem is, im not a small man and shes a small asian girl, so shes natually cock-grabbingly tight. Im just worried that im going to rip her in half like a phone book. Anyone have any tips other than excessive lube? Would appreciate any insight you guys/girls could offer.