Ok ... I'm taking my girl to Lake Tahoe coming in DEC. She is very regular with her period and it so happens that during that week that we are going the day we leave she'll be getting it and when the day after we come back it should be over. I'm spoiled and I don't use rubbers because she takes birth control ... anyway it was her idea that we try anal sex. Now, this is her first time and mine also ... so I'm not really sure what I can do to make her experience and my experience more enjoyable. I understand that it can be very uncomfortable for the girl and I don't want to hurt her. Anyway I understand there are different types of lube and some work better than others ... I would love to know any recommendations and pointers form people who have experience.