Hello everyone, I've recently started talking to an old "FRIEND" from high school, we haven't talked for a couple years and recently we've been talking quite a bit. Now before i get started let me say, i'm usually pretty damn good at pulling women getting what i want, and getting out; but for some reason this girl has a lot of appeal to me, and it's driving me nuts. I actually ran into here leaving my gym, she works at shop near by, we started talking on a pretty much daily basis everything seems great. But the first dilemma, she has a serious boyfriend that she likes. So we go out to lunch one day, hit up a local sushi joint, and have a great time, and thats it. the second time we hung out, we went down to the beach for the day had a nice stroll along the beach and flirted quite a bit, no hooking up though, i wouldn't want to do that since she has a boyfriend.. we ended up talking about very sexual things, encounters, fantasy's etc.. went back to her house had a couple beers, and watched the laker game... overall great day. i completely left the scene for about 5 days, went to the river and had a good time with no contact, when i came back i had a few nice emails, voicemails and texts about missing me etc, great i probably dropped by her shop after the gym and talked for a good 20 minutes 3 consecutive days ( I THINK I MADE A MISTAKE HERE) CRITIQUE =]? we had a great talk and laugh every day we hung out again that same night, and watched the laker game, but i have been having some trouble at work, so i wasn't really myself, not playful or funny etc.. it just felt weird well i found myself dropping in again today, i know big mistake, fuck. didn't really feel a connection.. i'm pretty sure i'm going a little overboard yesterday we planned to go out to lunch again, and i'm thinking of something fun afterwards, but i'm a little confused because of the visit earlier today.. i'm gonna let her call me about the lunch tomorrow and we'll go from there.. i know if we hang out we'll have a great time My question is: how often should i contact her? if she texts me on a daily basis should i text back? i have been... also dropping by after the gym.. i'm thinking i should limit that to like 2 days a week max and see what happens from there no we haven't hooked up yet yes she has a boyfriend heres a little something i left out: her boyfriend is moving to a different state and she basically told me she will break up with him once that happens.. does taht mean anything or am i over analyzing? jesus.. for once i like a girl and its driving me nuts any critique? i actually like this girl, shes awesome i'd like to get with her.. any thing i should/shouldn't do? thanks for help!