So I have decided to put some to use this evening...I have anal, but only the past year or so I guess you can say it's still all new. Any suggestions? I don't like too much lube in that area because then too much goes it all at once and that is not such a great feeling (unless I'm drunk lol). But I am assuming this will be different. Also should he be inside of me (the other place) while they're in me? What exactly should be done? Put them in all at once or one at a time? I feel silly asking but I want to make sure we do it right so I enjoy it. Thanks in advance.