This was a response to someone else's thread... thought it would be useful to some of you guys here... Dude, you need to rip your fucking head out of your ass. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You should not be talking to this girl anymore. At all. Not a single word other than finance and the children. Nothing. She deserves nothing and talking will only damage your own internal psychology. You are holding on because you believe you have no net to support you. You know what happens when you realize that she can't hold you forever? The fall hurts a lot more. Stop being a fucking whiney bitch. I know it hurts dude. But so does taking off a band aid. Sometimes you have to do certain shit because it's what's good for you in the long run. Stop looking for what will make you feel good now and realize what's good for you in the long run. In 5 years when you're looking back on this shit and how you handled a lying cheating twatbasket cumguzzler, do you want to be looking at a picture of how much of a small dicked, small testicled pathetic loser you are, or do you want to look at a picture of a man who knows what he deserves out of life, knows what his personal boundaries are, and knows what he will simply not tolerate from other people. That is the reason that she is cheating on you, you have lost your iron claw grip on your own life and your sense of deservedness. But the good thing is that this shit is fluid; you just need to spend some time changing your internal thought patterns and belief systems and realize that you can and you should grow not just as a person but as a MAN. Think about your male role models. How would they act in this situation? Think about it. hard. Would they do what you're doing? I doubt it. Sack up dude, sack the fuck up. You have a DICK dude, that is god's GIFT to you, you are a MAN. Now act like one.