After 10 years of dating I decided to end my relationship with my gf. My reason for breaking up up was the fact that we argued a lot (3 to 4 times a week) about stupid things and we didn't even live together. I believe that if we got married and eventually moved in together it would end up in a divorce. She would be very controlling and curse at me. I just simply had enough. I try to think of negative things when I think of her. Any advice on how to ease the pain and get through this?