Dad died 10 years ago. He was in the military and has been all over the world. I was talking to my mom lastnight about all kinds of stuff. She told me that my dad fathered a child in Tailand when he was stationed there in the 60s. This was before he met my mom. She only found out after they were already married. My dad had received a letter from his daughter in tailand. My mom was hurt but said that she would support whatever he decided to do. She says that she never heard about it again. My mom says that I'm the only one of 4 kids that knows about it. She herself knows nothing more about it. My dad never spoke of it and she never brought it up bc of the painfull memory. I'm still digesting this info. I'm not sure what to think. My dad was a great guy who did alot for us. Is this Tai girl my half-sister? did my dad abandon her? She obvously thought enough to write my dad years later. Should i try to find her? I wouldnt even know where to start.. Not even sure why i'm posting this other then to sort my thoughts.. Not even sure what kinda replies to expect.