I'm not sure why I am posting this thread. This has been bugging me for quite some time. I know we get a lot of people passing through here some just to lurk and oogle, others for a safe haven, others to get ideas and feel connected. I am a little of all of those. The thing is, who decides whats freaky and whats not? Do the hard core freaks think that if you arent super freaky then you dont belong? I know some things are decided by their definition, such as a fetish. But what about some of us that are pushing ourselves to an extreme( out of our comfort zone) and consider ourselves freaky yet we arent as hardcore as others. I guess I'm just rambling. I just feel so out of place here sometimes, nowadays. I am a freak in my own world but not in this one. Like there's no spot for me. yeah I know this might not belong here so move it if you need to. anybodys thoughts?