New here. Basically here's the deal. We've been together for 3 years and I love her to death. We've never had sex (actual penis into vagina) because she wants to wait until we are married, that part is fine with me. The only thing is, things are getting a little...boring in the bedroom. We've done all we can think of without actual sex, short of toys. Any ideas on how to liven things up a bit?