im curious how some of you would react and maybe help me understand why it bothers me. one of my very close friends has always treated his now wife shitty (ignores her, goes out of his way to annoy her, cheats on her). she then gets knocked up and he marries her. i told him it was a dumb idea but his choice. now he is still cheating on her. he will even lie and refer to his wife as his baby's mom so the girls do not think he is married. i wont tell on him bc of two reasons: 1. he is my friend. 2. his wife is a complete bitch. i actually dislike her and i do not dislike a lot of people. ive never met a person that can be in a great mood one second and the very next you could say hi and she gives you a mean look and walks by. however for some reason it still bothers me when i find out that he is cheating. not to the point that i will say anything but it just does.