Friend comes back from being deployed overseas, meets my girlfriend's (now wife) roommate, gets her pregnant within a couple of weeks. He decides to propose, they get married, make it a few years and now she supposedly wants to "play the field". She's moving out, he's stuck with a house that he can't afford alone. She slept with a lot of dudes before they got together and spent a lot of nights out at the clubs. I have a feeling she wants to go back to that life. I really want to just tell him that I feel bad that he has to go through this, because he wasn't expecting it. I think that he was more emotionally involved in the relationship. On the other hand, I'm glad it's over. I wished they had never got together in the first place, as I don't have a lot of respect for her. Besides giving my opinion before they got married, I never bothered him about it. I know the way to go is being supportive and not criticising of his situation, but I wanted to start this thread just to see if anybody has been through something similar and what they might have done. Is it appropriate for me to tell him he's better off?