I should also note that she told me about a sex dream with me, her husband, and a mutual friend giving it to her porno style. Did I do the right thing? I like them both very much. I told her if it was a mistake to never say anything to anyone on the subject again. I also told her that if she wasn't sorry about it...they have no kids and both have good jobs, so its not like it would be the end of the world to split up. Why do people get in relationships again?