How do you jokers deal with this scenario? I know a girl...fell in love with her at one point...before too long I was heartbroken. Year and a half later and we are talking again. My head is on a different level about her now. I do not want to be with her, but enjoy spending time with her. It seems to be the same with her. In the last week I've spent a lot of time with her. She isn't into me and I'm not into her on more than a friend level, but we treat each other physically...as if we were together as a couple. When she stays over, we cuddle and hold each other. It's led to further physical enjoyment as well. The kicker is she's still a "virgin" as in she hasn't had the dick in her pussy/ass. But she's done everything else...and done that a lot. What the fuck is wrong with this scenario? I feel like I can't talk to other girls because of it. The problem, though, is that I enjoy what happens between me and her. I should cut her off and seek what I really want in a woman rather than a bj/hj every once and awhile. It's always an empty feeling too when she leaves. *shrug* go with the flow I guess...she'll cave into sex at some point...I know it.