name? Christey age? 43 gender? Female ethnicity? Irish, German with a little Indian thrown in where raised? In and around Nashville, TN level and place of education? HS graduate with a little college but no degree. I was a little too wild to concentrate on school during that part of my life. occupation?Transportation Planner for a Logistics Company hobbies?Motorcycle riding, reading horror and erotica (my favs are Anne Rice and Pat Califa), writing dirty stories when the mood hits me sexual preference? Started out hetro then switched to homo when I was about 21. At 38 I went back to hetro but now I think I’m open to people, no matter which sex they happen to be, if they turn me on. measurements??? 5’9, 38DDD size 9 shoe and that’s all you’re getting how many/type of toys?: I probably own about 20 actual sex toys. Various dildos, a harness, of course a silver bullet and a rabbit. I currently have 2 whips and a riding crop. I like to improvise with things like a hairbrush as a paddle, clothspins as nipple clips, paintbrushes and knives for stimulation, etc favorite toys/instruments/equipment for use on self and on partner: I have a silicon dildo that is ambiguously shaped (it doesn’t look like a cock) and I really like to masturbate with it and also use it in my harness to fuck others. I’m also pretty fond of my rabbit for solo use. likes & dislikes on an FS level: No blood play, no scat and I really am not attracted to baby role playing. I love mental domination, sensory deprivation and sexual identity play for my partners. For me, I like to be choked, have my throat fucked and generally be treated rough. It’s hard for me to find partners that can be what I want and still give me what I need. It’s a delicate balance. best and worst experiences with FS stuff: Best experience was probably with my last partner. He was so open and completely into exploring. Unfortunately it didn’t last long because he couldn’t reconcile what I did to him with what I wanted him to do to me. Worst experience was probably falling in love with someone inexperienced in the life. I introduced him to many things but he ended up not being able to handle the things that happened between us and ended the relationship. I feel that I damaged him with some of the things that happened between us. It’s a good lesson to learn, that some people cannot stand to look at their darker desires even if they think they can handle it. fantasies: I have a lot of rape fantasies. I don’t want to be raped but the idea of the total loss of control is very erotic to me probably because I’m so in control in most of my life and relationships. I would absolutely love to be part of a group of women who gang dominate a willing man over several days. Participating and observing in that scenario sounds completely erotic to me. tell us about your childhood: I had a pretty normal childhood in a rural part of TN until my parents divorced when I was 11. After that my Mom kind of went crazy for a few years. There was a lot of drugs and sex around me (she didn’t even attempt to shield me from it). I lost my virginity in my own house on the night of my 13th birthday. My Mother threw a party that night to celebrate my entrance into my teens. Lots of drugs, bikers and fucked up shit no 13 year old should be in the middle of. I don’t even remember the guy’s name. I do remember that he was mid-twenties and knew how old I was and that I was a virgin. Hope he remembers me, he should. what do you think contributed to your like/dislike of teh FS: I guess the way I was being raised during my adolescence caused me to have a very screwed up set of values when it comes to sex. I still don’t think it’s a big deal. You fuck, it feels good and you go about your business. I know that’s not how most of the world views it but that’s how I see it. There have been very few times in my life that the sex act was an emotional act. I probably became attracted to the FS because I love mind fucks and messing with the lines of control and chaos. I also find that people in this life are more tolerant of my personality and values. When did you get an attack of the freakiness? I don’t remember not being freaky. I started masturbating and playing sex games with my girlfriends when I was 8 or 9. Are your siblings freaky? I have one sister who’s 6 years older than me. She probably has the tendencies but she hides it and tries her best to be mainstream. We don’t get along most of the time. How open minded are you? When it comes to sex and lifestyles, extremely. My only limits are things like pedophiles or necrophilia. It should be legal and consensual. I think whatever you’re into, whatever gets you off, is your business. I’m endlessly fascinated by what gets people hot. I used to go to sex clubs and strip joints just to talk to the customers and the workers. Figuring out what makes people tick is a fetish of mine. Have you ever been involved in a 3some? orgy? a gangbang? Several 3somes. Both all female and 1 male, 2 female varieties. I’ve never been with two men at once although I would love to give it a try. I’ve observed an orgy but didn’t participate. Never been in a gangbang or had an opportunity to watch one except on video. I’d love to watch one tho. What do you look for in another partner? Intelligence, willingness and a mental connection. I’m not that hung up on the physical. I’ve been with really great looking partners and partners that were probably not that great in most people’s eyes. They all brought something to the experience that I found irresistible at the moment. Are you a swinger?I don’t identify myself as one. I’ve usually stuck to one on one relationships. When I’m not in a relationship I pretty much do what I want so I guess at those times I might be considered a swinger. It doesn’t bother me to have more than one partner as long as they are okay with it. It’s harder for a female to be identified as a swinger. A guy can live that life and be envied for it but a woman that lives that way is a whore in a lot of people’s eyes. have you ever considered swinging? I consider it all the time. You never know what the future might bring Have you ever been to a lifestyle establishment? If so, how was your experience? I’ve been to several. The gay ones are so much fun. The atmosphere was so free and directed towards just doing your thing. Straight clubs are fun too but you have to be careful. There tend to be a lot of pedestrians that are there just watching or cruising for the entertainment value. Private clubs are the best but you have to have an invite to get in and I don’t currently have a hook up for the 1 we have here in Nashville although I’m working on it Have you ever been to a house party? If so how was the first one ever attended? Never been to one. Do you think a person’s promiscuity or lack thereof has to do with their childhood? Maybe. I think it has a lot to do with mine but I know a lot of people that had very traditional childhoods with no freakiness but it comes out in them anyway. Have you used online sites for the sole reason of getting sex? Absolutely. I was engaged to a man I met on AdultFriendFinder.com. What's your fav. body part of the opposite sex? same sex? On men I love their hands, their forearms and I am endlessly fascinated with cocks. On women I love their hips, their breasts and, of course, their pussies. Every lover has something that I fall in love with. Beautiful soft chest hair, the cleft of their buttocks, a sensitive spot between their shoulder blades. It could be anything. any fetishes? (what?)Choking and being fucked hard from behind. It’s the loss of control that I love. favorite outfit for a partner? Whatever turns them on the most. I’m usually just looking forward to getting them striped down.