i've been in a long term relationship for a while (multiple years). i do love her. i don't know if she's "the one". in fact i dont know what the hell thats supposed to feel like anyway, bar my high school girlfriend, which i was ignorant enough to think was "the one" back then. i know that i need to have a chapter in my life where i run a lot of game on girls. this is something inside me that has surfaced and i can't ignore it. its not about the sex, but i do need to at least have some form of feedback. for some reason, kissing them is about right. i've been holding back from this in cases i think its possible, but i'd like to stop that now. how the hell am i supposed to present this to my current SO? FYI i'm 27.