So call me wierd, for once in my life I'm starting to have emotional feelings for a girl ( I'm 18 years old a senior in high school ) Morally I think dating is pointless in highschool so I havn't really done much with anyone and really havn't felt for any girls. I'm sort of the shy type it's hard for me to try and tell someone how I feel about them let alone a girl, I went to visit her this last weekend and she apparently didn't know how I felt with her and was hanging out with another guy while I was driving around with them ( It was REALLY Akward ) I just don't really know what to do. Should I just tell her how I feel about her all at once or ease it on? I get confused what to do sometimes too, she doesn't live in my town but she's not that far away, long distance relationships are hard to maintain but it's worth the effort sometimes no? When I do get the chances to visit what should I be doing with her? I think taking her to a nice dinner and a movie maybe going skating or some activity is fun. I don't know my way around her town that well but I try to find a nice place to eat and go before I pick her up. My biggest fear is that if I try to involve myself too much and she doesn't want it to go that far that I could mess our friendship up which I don't really want to happen. Could use any help thanks. I just wish there was a "dating 101 handbook"