Not really looking for advice so much as I just want to type out what's on my mind... People have had worse lives than mine, no question about it, mine just seems exceptionally hard right now. I'm miserable in my marriage, haven't had sex in over 7 months, I am thinking about asking for a divorce June 1st. I got a speeding ticket today for going 50 in a 45. In the last year and a half I lost 90 lbs, going from 265 to 175. I did this with diet and the gym and lots of outside activities. In April (early) I had a bad mountain bike accident and tore my shoulder apart, had a complete AC Separation which basically means I destroyed the tendons holding my shoulder to my collar bone. Surgery is not recommended, which means for the rest of my life I will have a huge bump on my shoulder where my collar bone detached, as it will never re-attach. This means that I can't lift weights or do any really stressful activities (read: running, biking, hiking, anything where there is a remote chance I could fall on my shoulder) for about 6 months, which is where I pretty much get all my joy from nowadays. There are good things though, I have a strong support network of friends, and I have a great job that I'm in no danger of losing. I still have good things in my life, it's just that all these bad things have happened at the same time. I'm bummed.