Long story short: Was in a loooong relationship. Been single for over 7 months now. Been doing the bar/club thing for the almost same amount of time, but in the last month or so, been getting my confidence up slightly to go up to certain ladies and introduce myself, ask them how they are, etc., and even hold a conversation. Sometimes I'll ask them what they are drinking, and if it's something I've never heard of, they'll let me take a sip. Couple weekends ago talked to a girl for a while, bought her a couple drinks. Thought we got along, so I found her myspace while browsing and messaged her. She messaged back and asked how I was doing so I replied. No reply to this day (that was last week). Was at the bar this past weekend and was talking to some wimmenz, bought one girl 1 drink just to be nice, while my buddy was buying jager bombs for us and 5 other chicks, and the girls I was interested in ended up disappearing. oof: Then, went to another spot and was BS'ing with 3 of the girls that work there waaaaaay past last call and I thought we were gonna go find a place for a late night drink, but I guess they were'nt interested after all. Am I being too impatient? They seem to think I'm cool, they remember me when they see me. I'm no Quasimodo, but no Brad Pitt either I dunno what I should do. I'm to the point where I don't wanna be a dick, but I'm sick of buying a chick a drink, bullshitting with them, and then they disappear. Maybe I'll just stay home and spend the money I save on my car, at least she'll let me drive her around What to do OT?