my gf and i dont have many opprutunities to have sex but we both want it more. I dont have like a secluded basement we can use and my parents are always home as with hers. I was thinking perhaps ide try it after they went to bed. but i think she would be too loud, or maybe in a car?? But i also need someway i can get into the mood for both of us. Im kinda a shy guy when it comes to this and ive only had sex twice and they were with her. And each time it was after she or i had dranken a bit. but were beyond that and i think i need to drink some to loosen up some... what can i do?