When did you guys get over that stage, if you were ever in it at all? I'm 20 now, started "partying" pretty young, 14, when i lost my virginity. Since then it's just been a race to bang every girl i could. Lately though, i just haven't been motivated to even persue a girl for sex. With the exception of one female i've known for awhile, i'm not even interested in a relationship. So, i find myself in limbo. Is that a stage that people grow out of and i'm just caught between the two now?