Just want to see if im crazy for not understanding this. This is a summary: My parents went through one of the nastiest divorces my city had prob had in a while. Since my father is pretty well known around this city, it was extremely publicized (local news/newspapers for weeks). My dad smacked my sister which led to a legal nightmare, and it turned into the worst few years of my life. I was 15 at the time. I dealt with it, and eventually got over it. I basically repressed the entire disaster and moved on with my life (did a pretty good job, actually). I repressed it so well that I never spent a second even thinking about it in the past 8 years or so, which of course means I never told my gf about it. About 3 days ago, someone that works at the hospital asked her who her bf was, and proceeded to find articles online from 10 years ago about the stuff that happened with my family, and gave it to her after finding out who I was. She made me meet her at a park, and handed me the stack of old newspaper articles from the internet. She then proceeded to tell me to give her back her house key, and actually acted scared of me. Keep in mind that we had been together for 26 months without one major argument and ive never even raised my voice at her. So in summary: im being judged because my dad was a piece of shit 10 years ago, and my gf believes that somehow that makes me a future piece of shit because I didnt disown him. She also must think I kept all this info hidden from her or something, but in reality I had just repressed it so well it never even came out. I spent a lot of time this weekend trying to figure this out, and it just keeps making me more angry at her lack of empathy or compassion.