Hey guys, first time Asylum poster here.. I've been dating this girl for about 6 months now. We get along great, and everything is good except for this one issue. Our schedules are exact opposite (I'm in school, she works at a bar) so the only time I really get to hang out with her is on the weekend. She parties a lot more than I do, and it's nothing new. But lately I've found that she seems to be looking more forward to getting high than to spending time with me. Coke, shrooms, weed, whatever. I smoke weed, but that's it. Friday night was Halloween, and I didn't see her because she went to a rave while I went to a house party. (She wants to do E, I want to drink.) Last night we were supposed to hang out, but she got high and told me to come hang out with her friends instead. I dropped by around 1 when I was done my stuff, and everyone was just lying on the couch. We hung out for a bit, and I asked her to come back to my place. She said she was too high to even get up and come to my car. I got annoyed and left. I'll be seeing her tonight...I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell her to just stop doing drugs - I'm not her father, and I don't for a second think that it will get her to stop doing them. She makes good money and likes to spend it. Not worried about her using me for $, and I know all her friends. I know she's not staying out to sleep around. It's just to get high.