So my GF of one year is giving me the whole, "she needs time to think" bullshit. I usually sleep with her every night, but we haven't seen each other in over two days. Granted, she's been busy with a lot of school shit, which is fine, but then she gives me shit when I make plans after I've tried to contact her and can't get in touch with her. Last night, she got home and wanted to see me, I told her I had plans for the night but I would come over and relax with her for an hour or two before I went out, and/or I would leave the club early to come back to her. She gives me the "forget it, I need to think," and turns her phone off. I go out, get fucked up, try and contact her before I go to bed, but she's still unresponsive. Lately she's been telling me how she would never want to take me away from my friends, all that shit about how they'll always be there for me, but she might not always... But then she contradicts it when I have plans with them and expects me to change my plans, and go against what she originally told me, and come see her. It's not that I don't wanna see her, she's just really making it difficult for the both of us to have a working relationship right now. Not to say I'm not partially to blame, because it's always a combination of two people, but I'm not trying to cause this conflict right now... what'd you think I ought to do OT? I finally got a text back from her a few minutes ago that said she still needed time to think... Should I do the thinking for her?