she's this really busy person with loads to do in school and in life and i'm graduating this quarter. i'm 21, she's 19. i'm really chill and all i want to do is relax and i get belittled for this. she says i'm always too free and i'm lazy. she also criticizes the friends i have, particularly this one girl. i think she's jealous or scared or something to that extent. she always says i talk to her on aim and she's always asking me questions about stuff. what's wrong with helping a friend with stuff? they're usually techy questions. and besides i'm not the one with a million guys IMing her and hitting on her at work and school. i don't say a thing. AND she always has dreams of me cheating on her. there's this girl she doesn't really like and i just happen to be in her statistics class and we talk on aim about statistics stuff. what's wrong with having a contact in class to get help on homework and stuff for? today she said "i think it's weird you're friends with her". wtf. this makes it sound like i have a bunch of girl friends, but i'm seriously just an asian fat dorky loser.