So a little history: Dating for a year + some change now. Her family took me in basically and housed me for a better part of a year. Now things are getting strained. I have since moved out into an apartment. I feel trapped. She has been broken up with her ex for nearly 2 years yet she still has his pictures up and constantly talks about him. She has zero pictures of me up but still has her ex's pics out. Maybe I shoulda picked up on the warning signs earlier. I can't just dump her. Besides I like her. On the clinginess factor she ranks a 10/10. I went out of town and she called me a bazillion times and wanted me to check in like every 5 mins. Then again im pretty clingy myself. Sex life: Directly quoting her "Sex is a chore" so you can see her feelings right there. Making her orgasm isnt the issue, its just that theres no spark anymore. I mean in the middle of having sex it turns into so we either end up stopping or she just says 'hurry up and go' which kinda puts me off. She makes really good grades and works hard though. I already know what you guys are gonna tell me: DUMP HER get a new chick. BTW we're both in college.