so I hung out w/ this one girl who is 25 y/o (like me) & a virgin.... I assume this is pretty rare. It may sound shallow, but I'm a 25 y/o male & have a sex drive & have been having sex since i was 18...I dont think I can date a girl w/o the possibility of sex w/in a 2-3 months max. How hard would it be to take a girls virginity who has gone this long w/o sex? The thing is, she dated a guy in college for 3 years & they never had sex..... sex is an important aspect to a relationship (along w/ compatibility, trust etc...)...i really dont want to date a girl w/o the chance of sex.....not saying the 1st or 2nd date, but i cant wait an extended period of time.