All the important stuff is in bold, read the rest if you want the full story: A little back story. We both work together at a grocery store (temp job until I head off to college.) I'm 18 and still a senior in high school, she's 20 and a junior in college. She's one of the cutest girls I know and she's is really cool too. I would hit on her at work, we'd take shots on our breaks every once in a while, etc...nothing really serious. But I end up starting to REALLY like her a lot. Then we ended up hanging out, getting drunk, and hooking up at the end of the night. Then we both got pretty busy and didn't do too much for a month. Anyways, then my prom comes up. Now the fun begins. So I get a geniushsugh idea to take her to prom with me. I figure out a good way to ask her, she says yes and seems sincere about it. So it's all good until prom night. We get dinner with a few friends then meet up with a bunch more to get on a party bus to head over there. It's a ton of fun, and prom is even better. Lots of dancing and just random fun stuff. Me, this girl, my friend/his date, and my other guy friend head back to her house after and play a bunch of beer pong and get pretty wasted. I end up trying to hook with her and pretty much get rejected. I'm pretty drunk by them, and I've been trying to pull this girl for months, so I'm pretty pissed/hurt. I end up heading home, and the rest of my friends stay over there. The next morning I can think clearly and realize what happened sucked, but it's not a big deal and I'm over it. So everything goes on like normal. The day after that we both work together. I get in and plan on apologizing for bailing on her house/just being a dumbass in general. Instead, I get there and she pretty much completely ignores me. I figure I'll just talk to her on our break. Then my guy friend that was there alone at her house prom night without a date comes in. He proceeds to tell me he hooked up with the girl I took that same night after I left. This dude is one of my best friends, so I don't even know what to say and pretty much tell him to fuck off and I'll talk to him later. It was pretty much the longest day of work ever, having to think about what happened and continue to work like 10 feet from this girl. After work I send her a pretty nasty letter on facebook (and by pretty nasty I mean VERY nasty.) She hits me up on aim and we go at it for a while having a pretty gnarly argument. Not once does she say sorry. It was a lot easier with my friend. I kinda pussied out and just told him I was going to punch him and he was going to take it, so I gave him a nice solid punch to the face, and we've been cool since then. Kinda immature, but what are you gonna do? It made things simple. Cliffs: I'm interested in this girl for 2-3 months, best friend completely knows about it, I take her to prom, we all get drunk, I get rejected by her and go home, she hooks up with my best friend. So my plan is to just keep being an asshole to her outside of work, ignore her in work, and move on with my life. I still like her, like REALLY like her, but after pulling some shit like this and not even saying sorry, I'd be her bitch to continue to try to do anything with her. It seems like the easiest (and maybe only) way to accomplish this is to keep being an asshole which in turn will keep us away from each other so I can just shut her out of my life. Anyways OT, the point of all this is, am I in the wrong to stay bitter at her? I now completely understand the whole "don't shit where you work" thing, but it won't be too hard to ignore her and move on with my life.