ok so bacially i been hanging out with this girl i like, we have made out and are both into one another however she wont get serious because she is still into her ex and cant get over him. I have told her that if she wont get serious with me ill just leave but when i tell her that she gets all emo and it makes me feel bad when she talks about needing me in her life. should i lay down an ultimatum and make her choose or should i just move on or should i just stick it out. i feel like im wasting my time by sticking around because i have a gut feeling that she wont ever get serious (the whole good guy image/ frendship zone). also is it wrong for me to push her like this? the way i see it at some point she is going to have to get over one of us because we cant stick around forever. btw her ex wants nothing to do with her other than sex so the relationship means nothing to him.