Alright I thought I had this under control or settled,but I guess I didnt becasue of the way i went about it. A girl my age has a kid who is about 3 years of age, and her father left them when she was born. I took her out once before and actually had a really good time, but the kid thing scared me off. I kind of ignored her and didnt tell her why, but she kept calling me and asking to hang out again. I actually wanted to hang out to, but just as friends because we got along so well. Tommorw were going out, i just dont know how to say it polite. At my age and with college,work and everthing else im not ready to have a relationship with a kid involved that really makes things hard. I just want her to know I enjoy her company,but wont pursue it further then just being good friends.